Men, How to Keep Your Woman's Love Tank Full

Guys listen carefully because that is the first step.  Listen!

Now for the bad news.  Most men and many women these days don't know how.  So it must be discussed.  

It's very simple if you follow a few simple rules.  Number one is turn your TV, computer, radio and everything else off.  You can't listen to your woman in a loving way if you don't.  The second rule is to look her in the eyes.  This is a must.  You have to look her in the eyes so she knows you are paying attention to her.  

So spend some time listening to her each and every day because for her this is high quality if you do it like you care.  But if you are reading the news paper while she is trying to share something with you it won't work.  

The next thing goes along with the first thing and that is spending quality time with her.  Your lady needs you to spend quality time with her like dinner which is a place you can pay attention to her.  So you got to have a date night.  And don't cancel it!!  Dates are extremely important.  It's good to just hang out, but you also need regular date nights doing something SHE likes to do.  

Next is just be affectionate with her.  Hold her hand, give her hugs.  To a man again this might not be important but to her it might be very important and fill an important need. 

Stay romantic.  Put on some slow dance songs and dance with her.  Get her roses and flowers and chocolate or whatever she likes then do it!!  

I think to sum things up, I remember when I was first dating my wife before we got married.  And I know at that time I was always thinking (even lying in bed) of ways to make her happy, surprise her and love her.  So remember those days and do those exact things and after a while you might get a good response - I did!!

This is only a start.  I'll discuss more details later.  But don't be lazy - put forth the effort that you did when you were first dating.  And I think you will notice a huge difference between what you were doing then and what you have been doing (or have not been doing lately).  

BD