How Do I know If He Really Loves Me or Just Wants Me Around For Sex?
This is an excellent question and deserves a few good answers. First let's have a look at how he treats your family. Does he take a vested interest in your family or does he isolate himself and put them down? He should want to spend time with them and love them because they are part of your family.
The second thing is how does he treat his mother? With respect? Or is he always putting her down? I mean his mother is not perfect I'm sure, but she is still his mother. So it could be a reflection of how he will treat you.
Now about sex, does he demand it or not? I mean how does he treat you? That's the most important question I'm going to ask. Is your cup full or not? If you give him what he wants does he give you what you want?
Realize what fills your love tank is it dinner, movies, romantic walks, shopping - what is it? If he knows what fills your cup does he do those things or not? And that my friend is one of the most important questions I will ask. And it's what you need to ask yourself. I mean does he pay attention to you? Does he consider you? If he does not do these things then he either has no idea what to expect (and this is actually very possible) or he does not love you enough to put forth the rewarding effort.
Are his friends and work more important than you? I mean true love is a sacrifice that is well worth it!
Just think about these things. I have much more to add in another post - thanks!
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